Sunday, October 13, 2013

When a team comes to an end

       Other than work situations, I haven't been a part of too many groups so many of my team building has been with colleagues.  The hardest group for me to leave was at the last public school I taught in.  It was in the small town where I lived.  We had 3 classrooms of each grade level.  The 2 other teachers I worked with became my good friends as well as colleagues.  We discussed personal, as well as school related, topics.  Through the 4 years I taught with these ladies I learned so much about them as professionals as well as individuals.
      Because we were a small school, we always had going away parties for those who resigned or retired.  At my going away, I was presented with a beautiful bracelet one of my grade level colleagues had made for me that had the names of my three children on it.  It was a very special gift and one I will always treasure. 
      Sadly, I feel that adjourning this group of classmates will be a "goodbye" in a discussion or blog post.  Because this is a virtual community, I feel more disconnected than if we were in a physical classroom together.
       Adjourning is important to a team because during this time they can reflect on their experiences together.  This stage "provides the team the opportunity to say good-bye to each other and wish each other luck as they pursue their next endeavor" (Abudi, 2010, p. 4).  It allows for a time of celebration for the work accomplished and relationships built. 

Reference 
Abudi, G. (2010). The five stages of team development: A case study. Retrieved from http://www.projectsmart.co.uk/the-five-stages-of-team-development-a-case-study.html

3 comments:

  1. Laurie,

    That is so awesome that you had such a strong connection with your grade level team and know that you and your team made such a positive impact on the children you taught. How cool that one of your colleagues gave you such a personalized gift when you were leaving. A lot of thought must have gone into that.

    Nicolette

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  2. Laurie,
    I can only imagine the impact you made on your colleagues and the students to be gifted with such a wonderful remembrance. It just goes to show how much of a shared identity you all defined as a group.

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  3. Pretty sure you are going to miss me when this is all over, Ms. Parker! I think we should try to say "Hello" in person before we say "Goodbye" in cyberspace! Have a good week, Katy

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