Wednesday, January 30, 2013

My Connections to Play

Quotes about the importance of  play
“Play keeps us vital and alive. It gives us an enthusiasm for life that is irreplaceable. Without it, life just doesn’t taste good” Lucia Capocchione

“We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” George Bernard Shaw

Both quotes retrieved from http://planningwithkids.com/2009/04/14/10-quotes-on-the-importance-of-play/

Things from my childhood

My sisters and me (I'm on the right)
                         
                                       

           
My Support
I grew up on a farm so the great outdoors was my playground.  My mother and father encouraged us to find things to do and didn't allow hours of mindless TV viewing.  In the evenings, our "play" was usually working in the garden with my mom or helping dad feed animals or pick up hay.  I enjoyed our school's playground and remember spending lots of time on the teeter-totter.  I also remember doing a lot of coloring in coloring books.
Play Today
I feel that free play is seldom experienced by young children today.  Most are involved in more than one activity during after school hours and when they aren't at a practice, they are at a game.  The use of technology has overtaken any down time children have.  My generation, and generations before me, made up their games and they were usually meant to be played outside.  The safety of the world, now, is different than it used to be.  Parents have more reason to accompany their children to a park or be outside when they are playing in the yard.  It would be nice to have a place where children could be free to explore and feel safe doing so.  I am a big proponent of getting out in nature, but some families' lives are too busy for this type of experience on a regular basis. 
The Role of Play
I have been guilty of not playing enough.  As a working mother of three with a husband that traveled often for work, I let play fall off the priority list.  I did begin bicycling a few years ago, did it every day for about three years, but then I lost interest.  As the quote above by George Bernard Shaw says, we need to keep playing to stay young.  I have tried to remember this and build times for "play" into my weeks recently.  It's not the same as the play of children, but the activities I choose to do are enjoyable to me and help me relax.  I had a friend teach me how to kayak and I believe it is something I could do on a regular basis.  It combines my love of the outside and nature with the quietness of water.  I believe everyone should find something that they enjoy and make it a priority.  Whether the activity is done with someone else or alone, the time is valuable.

5 comments:

  1. We should play together! Your blog post spoke to me. I hope you read mine to see how similar they are. I had a very similar upbringing in the great outdoors. I actually get kind of crabby if I forget to go outside and play. Winter can be a bit of a challenge but I keep my snowshoes in my car just in case. Thanks for the blog post, it reaffirmed what I believe about play and nature.

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  2. Everyone needs play and I think we all feel better when we take the time to play. I remember playing on the teeter totter at school and the other child jumping off! I went slamming to the ground, then fell forward on my face! A great lesson about gravity for us! LOL! You are so lucky to have grown up on a farm! I bet hide-and-seek would have been a real challenge for you with so many places to hide! I'm not so sure I have the balance for kayaking, but I share your love of nature and quietness in the water. We like to canoe for the same reason.

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  3. Laurie-

    I am also a big fan of getting outside and exploring. What a great childhood you must have had growing up on a farm! Unfortunately, the safety of our world has changed, and children can no longer explore the world of outdoors for hours at a time. I would spend my whole weekend somewhere in the neighboorhood without checking in, unless it was time to eat! I really enjoyed your post!

    -Melanie

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  4. Laurie,

    I truly enjoyed reading your post. We have a lot in common. In the past, we did make up many games back in our early childhood years. I don’t know if this generation of children doesn’t use imagination enough or if technology has taken over the usage of the fullness of imagination. Children watch too much television and play too many electronic devices. The old way of doing things should still be implementing in case of power outage.

    Chereé

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  5. Hi Laurie,
    I do not play enough. I have been accused by my husband that I am not very playful, and that I do not have a sense of humor. I think all of the responsibilties I carry, keep me from being the playful person, I so desire to be. I will remind myself every now and then about the correlation between play and life.
    Thank You
    Magretta

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